My daughter and I went for a walk today. It was a cool morning, with the sun behind the clouds, and beside the river, the geckos had not ventured out. Stepping along the paths and listening to her chatter, I realised, however adult she has become, she is still the little girl with whom I shared the awesome feeling of wonder at the beautiful universe which surrounds us.
She shares a home with fellow students, and one of her friends was very taken with the festival of Diwali which was recently celebrated by Hindus all over the world.
Certainly one of the more glamorous festivals with lights and fireworks and the ever present sweets, and new clothes, it tickles the curiosity of many people. Even the recently re-elected “leader of the free world” has gone on record wishing the revellers well in televised speeches from the White House. My daughter’s friend was interested in how to say “Happy Diwali” in Indian. My daughter, not having such a fascination, went on to BBC online to glean what was happening elsewhere. And on BBC’s “This week in Pictures, she found this, (Note the picture of the iPad being offered flowers and being prayed to.)
It outraged her fastidious soul. It took me a while to understand why.
She wanted to know why some people prayed to accounting books at Diwali? Is that not Saraswati Puja (The festival of Knowledge) which is celebrated some time in January February?
It took me a while to understand her context.
From her childhood, growing up in Australia, being sporadically educated in Indian culture, she has been taught that the Festival of Lights is the triumph of Good over Evil, the celebration of Rama coming back to Ayodhya after vanquishing the demon Ravana, and here was a story about praying to accounting books!!!
“Is that not Saraswati Puja?”, she asked.
No… It is Lakshmi Puja. People do pray to Lakshmi, Goddess of Wealth, during Diwali.
“I like the idea of Saraswati Puja!” she said, eyes open wide and forefinger raised. “you dedicate all your studies and pursuit of knowledge to the Divine. You set all your intentions. And all year that feeling of dedication carries you through!” (Nerd radar out, anyone?)
Yes… her point being?
“You don’t pray to books at Diwali! You don’t pray to books, anyway, it is a symbol!”
Aah!
She was saying books and I was hearing accounting.
So we had a chat about the belief that this was the start of the accounting year, and how traditional business men start new accounting books, after dedicating their business intentions to the Goddess of Wealth, Lakshmi.
So now, of course, she wanted to know how Lakshmi got into the picture. We are from the East of India, Diwali is at the same time as our festival of Goddess Kaali! It is not the start of a new year for us, and we do not start new accounting books at this time. “We” encompassing the general populace of Bengal.
Once back home, I went on to BBC Online, and found the BBC school offshoot of the website. There were pages of descriptions of the Hindu festival of Diwali, and while they were all correct, I was left cringing at the superficial nature of the definitions. It was all about new clothes, sweets, lights and gambling. All the folklore and none of the philosophy. Kaali does get a mention, so there was that to be appreciative of.
The image of Indian dance and music has become encapsulated in the Western mind as “Bollywood” dance. Similarly, the knowledge of Indian festivals have become condensed into a
few traditions that really have nothing to do with what they supposedly symbolise. There is nothing wrong with this. Living is as much fun and gaiety as it is deep and meaningful. But I am glad that there are people around the globe who understand and love the sublime philosophy that has also taken birth amongst the loud, flashy, colourful, breaking-into-a-dance-at-the-drop-of-a-hat civilisation. Perhaps that is the nature of an all rounded life? It is what we draw in the air around us, and live within.
How do you celebrate your favourite festival? How important is the symbolism? Would you rather celebrate the rituals only?
Love
PS Photos courtesy Raka Mitra, my very good friend.
bodhimoments 
Comments on: "Etching The Significance" (8)
Ah! Lovelovelovelove!
My favourite festival, ummm…. changes every year…
And I have now reached a point where I only like the symbolism…. and hardly ever like the manifest celebration. What a party-pooper… I know!
However, having liked the symbolism, I like all festivals….
I like them, too….. And I like to tweak the rituals as I go along! 😉
Although a Muslim country, in Qatar (by law) everyone must be allowed to practise their own religion and not evangelise or try to convert others either. It’s bizarre that by moving to the Middle East I’ve landed in one of the most religiously tolerant countries and had so much more opportunity to discuss spirituality with people of so many different faiths. We have been invited and welcomed to share the special days and religious festivals of our new friends from all over the world.
Two years ago when we were still in England, my eldest came home from school with a candle he’d decorated for Diwali. I asked what Diwali was and he said: Mummy! What did they actually teach you at school?”. Well, in 1980s Scotland where sectarian violence between Catholics and Protestants was still a part of everyday life (and still is in many parts), Diwali wasn’t on the curriculum.
I loved reading your post about it and when my son comes home, I’m going to blow him away with my Diwali knowledge! 🙂
:). Please do blow your son away! 🙂
In India, till today, families and friends attend inter religious festivals, and follow inter religious traditions. My mom celebrates any religious festival she hears about. Growing up, we celebrated all the Muslim, Hindu and Christian festivals, which was especially good, because each festival comes with its own food!
I think your mom sounds like a top lady!
She definitely is!
🙂
Hi Sonelina
The article is heart melting.With everything else I lost all contacts and forgot even my password for Linked in.Email me.I connected with Mohini.Isn’t she your little sis?
manjusha.